Smile Selection Edition

Hate to see them frown, but I'd rather see you smile / So I'd cc'd every girl that I'd see see round town...

~ Andre 3000 / IPA ~

A few years back, I was grappling with my tendencies to “people please” at times. Not on some “whyze a thank you massuh bawse suh” tip, but rather trying  to overly ease the weight of the world that sits on everybody’s shoulders occasionally. We all got issues, B. And we all find our own ways to deal with em. One of my coping mechanisms was assisting other people with theirs. Gravity’s only undefeated when it’s one-on-one.

However, a brotha had to learn (still learn?), when in a relationship, I can’t “load lift” for every cool-like lady though. Even if it’s respectful, not flirtatious, or (dare I say) justifiable, it takes away from your lady feeling, seeing, and believing she’s special. It’s not a “lack of confidence” or “leash” thing on her part. It’s just a smile thing. 3 Stacks knew the maff...